I'm the total package but I still find it hard to find a guy...why?

I came out of an unofficial relationship and I'm basically ready to find someone else now...I'm black but I don't look full black and I'm quarter native american from both sides of my family and the guy I dated was pure bred native american. I don't get why I have such a hard time finding someone. I have a killer body and I'm outgoing and I'm beautiful (many guys have told me that) and I'm still a virgin. I have long flowy black hair. I'm loyal,caring, I don't get mad very easily. I'm laid back. I don't smoke or do drugs. I do tend to get a country accent (I'm from a countrier side of georgia) and swear a lot when I'm angry.Sadly though I don't find black guys attractive. I don't get why it's so hard to find someone in high school when I see so many couples around me. I miss having someone to cuddle at a movie with. Are guys intimidated by girls like me?

I'm the total package but I still find it hard to find a guy...why?

Yes, a attractive woman that's appears popular MUST ( or so we think) be interested in only a like , equal opposite. Beauty has its draw backs. Some guys believe that a woman that's beautiful and says she "knows" she is beautiful is also shallow and self-absorbed. Now that may not be true, but most guys who feel this way won't take a chance on getting ridiculed by trying. Its hard enough just getting to like your self some times than to be rejected by a heady self-assured girl; even if she has a great personality, we will never take the chance. SO.... you must make the first move and demonstrate you are interested. If he is a attractive, self-absorbed guy he will only want you for 1 thing. If he is attractive and doesn't flaunt it. bingo.. go for it!

I'm the total package but I still find it hard to find a guy...why?

you may assume too much. sorry, but you're insisting on it so much...maybe you really aren't that attractive to most guys.

or maybe you dont flirt enough.

try asking some guys out.

I'm the total package but I still find it hard to find a guy...why?

Because you are a virgin. Suck a few guys off, then men might want to date you.

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I'm the total package but I still find it hard to find a guy...why?

You sound like a very nice, decent young lady. Don't change your ways, just be patient. A young man will fall in love with your smile, so wear it as often as possible.

I'm the total package but I still find it hard to find a guy...why?

Be yourself, stop worrying about what other think and whats going around you. My dad told me one day my problem was I was cute and I knew it! Sounds like you know too!

I'm the total package but I still find it hard to find a guy...why?

i have the same problem, im a college grad with a six figure salary but i have the hardest time finding some one but i truly believe that people are intimidated of what they dont know, they may deem you as un-approachable maybe you need to have a more outgoing personality so guys can feel comfortable approaching you, thats what im doing now